Why our way to see things is polarized?

    

Why our way to see things is polarized?

There is the saying that we see things through the rose-red glasses. That means that thing means that we are seeing things, and react to them as we learned in childhood. When we see something, we know that we see the same way, but the point of view of things is different every person. And one of the most important things that we must remember is that even some other person says that they agree with us, that thing doesn't mean that the person can tell lies. 

The experiences with social- and educational backgrounds are modeling our way see things. So we see objects in a similar way we are thinking about them differently. And the thinking is the thing, what process our reaction for something. 

The visible reaction like words is the thing, that is visible to others, and that visible reaction is that we are estimating.  A person can say that "coffee was pretty good", but the truth might be that the person might hate coffee. So if we are visiting some friends we might want to be polite, and tell that the coffee was good, because we don't want to insult our hosts.  

The polite behavior causes that the person lies to the hosts because telling the truth is impolite action. So much easier way is to tell lies and say that the coffee was good. The thing that we are calling the processing the images is what is making the reaction. And the feeling like a neural activity that connected to that image is coming in that process. That is telling if we have some important experiences connected to some objects. 

When we are young we are learning some kind of behavior model connected to the object, and that means that if we are facing cases like somebody has attacked us by using some certain thing like bottle that thing remains in our mind. If the violent situation follows always that somebody is putting the bottle on the table, that thing activates the defensive mechanism in our mind. And that thing is visible in the sensors, which are detecting neural activation even the person only sees a bottle.